Hey Reader,
I’ll never forget the feeling of horror I had watching someone ask Ramit Sethi the most uncomfortable question on stage after he gave a speech.
He’d just delivered a fantastic talk and said he would answer a few questions. A very common thing to do after a speech.
After answering several questions, he said he had time for one more.
A hand went up. He pointed in their direction.
“When are you going to be a good Indian son and give your parents a grandchild?”
You could have heard a pin drop.
Ramit stared at them, shook his head, and walked off stage. Not exactly the ending you hope for as a speaker!
This experience drove home some good advice I remember reading from my friend David Nihill in his article, 1 Trick to Finish Your Next Talk in Style:
Never end on Q&A.
To be clear, that doesn’t mean you can’t take questions at all, but don’t let questions be the last thing. You want to control the ending.
Let’s say you do want to take some questions. Great! A good way to control the ending is to prepare three main takeaways to deliver at the very end and have them ready to go. Announce you’ll be taking some questions and will then leave them with a final thought. That way, they know questions won’t be the final thing, and if you do get an awkward question, it won't be the last thing that rings in everybody’s ears.
After answering questions, bring things to a close by leaving them with your three main takeaways. This will also result in ending things with solid applause instead of whatever lackluster clapping might’ve followed an “okay, any more questions…? No? Okay, thanks for having me.”
Control your ending. Never end on Q&A.
![]() |
If you've been holding back on using the Creator Network to recommend subscribers because you use third-party forms, you're in luck!
Creator Network now supports third party forms including Gravity Forms, wpforms, and more. To set this up, go to Creator Profile > My Recommendations > Settings > Edit.
View instructions for setting up third-party forms »
There are two fun things happening:
It makes sense if you don't related to those giant numbers. Of course the biggest creators are crushing it. But here's what I love about both free and paid recommendations on Creator Network: it's accessible at the smallest levels as well.
We have so may sponsors eager to pay for quality subscribers that you can recommend them (and start earning right away) even if you only are getting a few new subscribers per day. That can easily turn into $100/month or more of income.
If you haven't set up Creator Network go do that now!
Our mission is to help creators earn a living. It's so fun to see that play out through these new methods of earning!
Have a great week!
—Nathan
P.S. Do you live in NYC, Austin, or Nashville? I'm launching something new and will do a three city tour in late September to kick it off. Hit reply and LMK if you want to come.
I'm a designer who turned into a writer who turned into a startup CEO. My mission is to help creators earn a living. Subscribe for essays on building an audience and earning a living as a creator.
Hey Reader, If I could solve only one thing in my business, that would have the biggest impact, what would that be? This is the question every great entrepreneur obsesses over. Rather than trying to do everything at once, you look for the bottleneck and focus on solving that. There’s a book called The Goal by an Israeli physicist named Eliyahu Goldratt. It’s a 1984 business novel that business systems nerds love. However if you’re not a business systems nerd you probably… won’t love it. It’s...
Hey Reader, Have you ever spent money on something and immediately felt guilty afterward? Will Guidara spends his money foolishly on purpose. And he thinks you should too. He once bought an entire barrel of whiskey and put it in his basement. He also put a skee-ball machine in the office. Is he going to get a monetary return on either of these things? No. But that’s kind of the point. He calls it the 95/5 rule: Manage your money and time like a maniac 95% of the time (no expense is too...
Hey Reader, Have you ever spent a whole day on something almost nobody saw? It's painful when the whole reason you worked hard was because you wanted to reach people. If you teach a workshop in person, you reach the 20 people in that room. But if you record that same workshop once, you can keep teaching for years on autopilot. This is the concept of leverage, and it's something I talk about in my upcoming book, The Ladders of Wealth (you can pre-order it now). A lot of people will look back...